Relationship & Intimacy Coaching

Specialties

  • Relationship Coaching

    Strengthen your relationship by building intimacy and connection every day, communicate and work through struggles with ease.

  • Sex Positive Approach

    Discover & embrace your erotic identity and sexual interests in our judgement free, sex positive coaching sessions.

  • Holistic Life Coaching

    Make the switch from simply surviving to thriving with uniquely tailored life coaching. 

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    LGBTQIA+

    Gender, Sexuality and Relationship Diversity (GSRD) Informed Sex and Intimacy Coaching. 

  • Alternative Relationship Styles & Kink

    Learn how to make your dreams and fantasies a reality with a kink-informed, non-monogamy informed coach.

  • Pregnancy & Parents

    Become a safe and knowledgeable source for your children and continue to prioritize enjoying your own sex life at all stages of life.

  • Sexual Health Education

    Learn what your sex ed classes might have left out in a fun judgement free

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Live Authentically

We are a boutique Relationship, Sex and Life coaching service based in Auburn, Wa serving clients nationwide through confidential and secure online sessions. You will develop practical tools and solutions to bring you confidence and energy to reawaken or pursue new interests with playfulness and joy. 

Fuel Your Passions

Coaching for intimacy, sex, relationships and life can benefit everyone. Commonly addressed topics include: 

  • Introduce New Fantasies or Desires

  • Adult Sex Education

  • Cultivate More Passion and Intimacy

  • Kink or BDSM 

  • Improve Communication

  • Explore Gender Identity or Sexual Orientation

  • Increase Body Confidence

  • Open Relationships and Non-Monogamy

  • High and Low Sex Drives (Desire Discrepancy)

  • Porn, Sex or Love Addiction

  • Threesomes

  • Create Deeper Connections

  • Time Management

  • The Feeling of Wanting ‘More’

Enjoy Deeper Connection

Why online coaching?

Accessible online coaching sessions enable me to reach and help more people by providing the convenience and flexibility found in our new world of digital communication. Privacy and confidentiality are paramount so you can expect your digital information to be handled with the same care and safety as any in-person provider.

What is sex positivity?

Sex positivity means valuing sex and sexuality as a normal, healthy part of being a human. It promotes the ability to learn, discuss, and express your sexuality without shame, guilt, stigma or fear. It also means accepting a diverse range of sexual orientations, practices, preferences, and gender orientations without judgement. Comprehensive sex education is a cornerstone of sex positivity, including safe sex practices, consent, and individual autonomy.

What People are Saying

Testimonials

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I’ll be honest, I didn’t want to do it. My partner was convinced we needed help and I wanted to handle it ourselves. And then we met Kelsy for the first time. Let me just say, thought I knew some things and I’ll tell you what, nope — sure didn’t. And nothing has been the same since, it’s only gotten better and better between my partner and I in the sheets.

— Derrick, Kennewick, WA

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My parents NEVER talked to me about sex, and what I learned over the years was mostly trial and error. After being married for almost 15 years I couldn't shake this feeling that I was missing out on getting more from my sex life. Kelsy helped me discover so much about myself that I wish I had known decades ago!

— Lauren, Maple Valley Wa

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I’m in my 40s and after my divorce I found myself uncomfortable in my own skin and overwhelmed by how much dating had changed. Kelsy and I hit it off right away and I knew we would be a great fit. She comes across inviting and hospitable, and in the virtual world we live in that’s hard to do. We set up my dating apps together and while I’ve only been on a couple dates, the advice she’s given me so far and her guidance has me feelin’ myself! A+, highly recommend.

— Jennifer, Kent WA

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Our upbringing never really allowed us a full understanding of the commitment we were making to each other when we got married at 18 and 19 years old. Kelsy provided a safe place for us to establish our foundation as a young married couple (now 22 and 23) and has set us on a path to a future that I can’t wait for. If you are looking for a sex coach, you’ve found her!

— Chris and Annie, Vancouver WA

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My husband and I were struggling to feel real connection after our son left for college. Kelsy really helped us understand each other as partners again and connect in ways that we haven’t in a long time. Her practical, commonsense approach to relationships in the form of partnerships helped us find balance and each other. I can’t thank her enough!

— Jesse, Federal Way WA

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Kelsy really cares about her clients. You can tell her feelings are genuine and she really wants to help others. She listens and communicates in a way you feel there is no judgment and she creates an environment you feel safe talking about things you may not feel comfortable talking about otherwise

— Rebecca, Enumclaw Wa